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Long-Distance Caregiving 101

2/27/2013

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Being a caregiver can be a difficult job, both physically and emotionally.  Caring for a loved one in your home or nearby has many challenges.  But what if your loved one is in another town, state, or country?  Long-distance caregivers face different obstacles that complicate caregiving.  Shiffy Crane, a well-respected Geriatric Care Manager in Orange County, CA, talked on this subject in February of this year.  I was delighted to be part of the audience at the Senior Care Professionals breakfast sponsored in part by the Alzheimer's Association and Atria Golden Creek and to have the opportunity to hear her tips.  Here are three ideas that I want pass along:

  • Enlist the help of local resources.  Be it a friendly neighbor, a professional caregiver, or a distant relative, another set of eyes and ears checking in on your loved one will give you more information and peace of mind.
  • Remember your own balance.  Though you may be concerned with your loved one, you have the right to live your own life and to take care of your needs, too.
  • Make time for fun.  When you visit your loved one,it's easy to switch into "caregiver mode" and get busy with tasks.  While this is important, it's also crucial to allot "quality time" to reconnect with your loved one.

Much appreciation to Shiffy Crane for her tireless efforts in educating the Orange County community on elder care issues.  For more information about Shiffy, visit her website at www.elder-care-manager.com.

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William Gill link
11/20/2013 07:16:51 pm

When your loved ones get aged , it is challenge to take care for them.You must to show affection on them and make them happy every moment.Be friendly with them and be the best caretakers.

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Marnee link
11/21/2013 02:31:06 am

Dear William,
Thank you so much for your post. Yes, it is a challenge and it sounds like you have a lot of compassion and empathy to be able to get you through the more difficult moments. I appreciate your input and welcome your contributions.

Marnee

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